Valentine's Day Ideas
Valentine's Day as we know it is so different from its origin. If you don't know the history there is a lot of information on the Internet. Hallmark made it a "romantic holiday" in the early 1900's and it has never been the same.
Because it is associated with love and romance, we have come to think of a romantic dinner, flowers, candy and pretty cards. It can be very special if you are in love with someone, but it can be very lonely for someone single, recently divorced or widowed. We have embraced Valentine's Day as one day that should not be ignored so I am sharing a few ideas for everyone.
Some suggestions for singles:
Remember someone who is alone. Send a card, make a call, make some cookies or give a box of candy.
If you are single, have dinner with a single friend, or make it a party. You could also offer to babysit for a young couple who can't afford a sitter.
For couples:
Have a picnic in front of the fireplace. Share memories. Share dreams.
If you plan to go out, please don't wait until the day before to make reservations. If your budget won't allow you a gourmet dinner, find a quaint spot with great food and a nice atmosphere. Dress up and flirt with each other.
Lunch menus are less expensive and usually offer the same entrees. If your children are in school, you won't need a babysitter.
If you are staying home, pick up a great dessert at a bakery, or make your spouse's favorite treat.
Rent a movie, have "movie candy", popcorn, etc. and enjoy it after the kids are in bed.
One beautiful rose is lovely in a favorite vase; it doesn't have to be a dozen. (If you want flowers at a bargain price, the big warehouse stores have florist quality and are always fresh. Two dozen long stemmed roses are $14.99 at our store, but tend to be a couple of dollars more Valentine's week.)
Most women love candy, but if they are watching their weight, a small box with a lovely bow and a couple of truffles is perfect. (If your wife loves candy, no candy can say, "You don't need the calories." Not good.)
Take a walk and hold hands.
Valentine's Day is on Tuesday this year. If it is hard to do something special on that day because of work or other obligations, make a date for the weekend before or after. The restaurants won't be as crowded and noisy. But be sure to exchange cards or notes on the 14th.
Greeting cards are expensive. Hallmark's creation has become a financial investment for consumers. Make your own card or write a letter sharing what you appreciate about your spouse. If it is supposed to be romantic, wouldn't you rather say it yourself than have a professional writer, who doesn't know how special your spouse is, say it for you?
Start planning now so you aren't trying to pull something off at the last minute. And please remember, no one is guaranteed tomorrow. Put a little Valentine's sentiment in everyday.
Because it is associated with love and romance, we have come to think of a romantic dinner, flowers, candy and pretty cards. It can be very special if you are in love with someone, but it can be very lonely for someone single, recently divorced or widowed. We have embraced Valentine's Day as one day that should not be ignored so I am sharing a few ideas for everyone.
Some suggestions for singles:
Remember someone who is alone. Send a card, make a call, make some cookies or give a box of candy.
If you are single, have dinner with a single friend, or make it a party. You could also offer to babysit for a young couple who can't afford a sitter.
For couples:
Have a picnic in front of the fireplace. Share memories. Share dreams.
If you plan to go out, please don't wait until the day before to make reservations. If your budget won't allow you a gourmet dinner, find a quaint spot with great food and a nice atmosphere. Dress up and flirt with each other.
Lunch menus are less expensive and usually offer the same entrees. If your children are in school, you won't need a babysitter.
If you are staying home, pick up a great dessert at a bakery, or make your spouse's favorite treat.
Rent a movie, have "movie candy", popcorn, etc. and enjoy it after the kids are in bed.
One beautiful rose is lovely in a favorite vase; it doesn't have to be a dozen. (If you want flowers at a bargain price, the big warehouse stores have florist quality and are always fresh. Two dozen long stemmed roses are $14.99 at our store, but tend to be a couple of dollars more Valentine's week.)
Most women love candy, but if they are watching their weight, a small box with a lovely bow and a couple of truffles is perfect. (If your wife loves candy, no candy can say, "You don't need the calories." Not good.)
Take a walk and hold hands.
Valentine's Day is on Tuesday this year. If it is hard to do something special on that day because of work or other obligations, make a date for the weekend before or after. The restaurants won't be as crowded and noisy. But be sure to exchange cards or notes on the 14th.
Greeting cards are expensive. Hallmark's creation has become a financial investment for consumers. Make your own card or write a letter sharing what you appreciate about your spouse. If it is supposed to be romantic, wouldn't you rather say it yourself than have a professional writer, who doesn't know how special your spouse is, say it for you?
Start planning now so you aren't trying to pull something off at the last minute. And please remember, no one is guaranteed tomorrow. Put a little Valentine's sentiment in everyday.
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